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But how do you really know if your mate feels the same? Remember this a relationship is like an moving escalator it never is still.

Why wait as the spot gets bigger and bigger? Do you really want to court disaster in your relationship? And if you choose to do nothing about it now, how do you know your marriage or relationship won t silently pass the point of no return? To Partners Who Either Want to Be Less Controlling Or Less Passive But Don t Know How A little-known fact is that both partners behave the way they do basically out of fear of facing change and growth .

Do you have a dark spot on your marriage? Is the dark spot of anger in your relationship growing? Maybe you don t think that anger in your relationship has grown to the point of being a major problem.

And isn t that what you really want? How Much is Anger Costing Your Relationship? What do you do if an otherwise good apple has a dark spot on it? Cut out the dark spot before you eat the apple, of course.

Partners that report problems with control issues generally are not becoming closer.

And with an apple, if the dark spot grows too big, you end up throwing away the apple.

And if allowed to grow, the anger will take over the relationship and ruin every part of it.

In fact, just the opposite is happening.

The key is to take action before the dark spot gets too big.

It can be like an undetected cancer growing in an unsuspecting patient.

And a couple is either actively working on becoming closer, or they are drifting apart.

They subconsciously fear that the pain of changing their behavior is worse than maintaini....

Anger is like a dark spot on a relationship.

Understand that in a marriage or relationship with control issues, anger is typically unexpressed by one partner a lot of the time.

It happens the same way with a couple.

But it doesn t have to happen that way.

If anger is allowed to fester and grow, one or both partners may decide that throwing away the marriage or relationship is the only option.